December 7-10: Favored Woman

“And the angel came to her and said, ‘Greetings, favored woman! The Lord is with you.’ But she was deeply troubled by this statement, wondering what kind of greeting this could be. Then the angel told her: ‘Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God.'” – Luke 1:28-30

Favored woman.

This is a title we all long to hear. We want to hear it from our boss, friends, spouse, kids, or our social-media following.

Maybe I’m the only woman who wants to hear that… But I doubt it.

This week, I desired that others would favor me. I wanted to appear strong, capable, and winsome. So I delayed writing advent pieces until I felt like what I wrote was good enough. Through this delay, this passage from Luke was swimming laps in my head, not ending anywhere.

Mary found favor with God.

The word used here for “favor” is the same word for “grace” or “kindness.”

Mary was the one who received an extension of God’s grace. So what? Haven’t all believers found favor with God? Haven’t we all received grace?

I asked these questions as I read this Scripture over and over again.

I believe the answer to these questions is “yes.”

The Lord was with Mary. He chose her to become the one who was with child – the one who was literally with the Lord. Mary did nothing to entice the angel to speak this word to her. The angel was sent to tell Mary that the Word would be made flesh through her.

It was God’s grace to bring His Son into the world through Mary’s womb. It was God’s grace that this child would live perfectly in this shattered world. It was God’s grace that this child grew into a man who died on a cross. It was God’s grace that this man died for our sin and came back to life so that we could be called favored or recipients of grace. 

My sinful desire to be favored because of my good works and accomplishments find their death in Jesus. And, God’s holy desire to die for my sinful desire is God’s favor upon me.

When a believer receives the grace of God, she receives it through Jesus.

We are recipients of grace. We, by Mary’s child, can receive this word:

“Greetings, favored woman! The Lord is with you.”